Ginger Thanks All Her Friends

This post is for all those who know my dog Ginger and were very supportive last year when she was poisoned by Hill's M\D Diet Food.
I know, I know she's not a dog and even though she acts like one following me around she very well could be.
This is to thank all of Ginger's and my friends for their kindness in our troubled time last year. This is a update to how she is currently doing. Ginger and I are humbled by all the kindness we received last year in those unknown moments when I wasn't sure she would come home.
Once again Ginger and I are in that very same predicament. So with that said let me leave you with what I have posted on three sites I regularly visit.
For all Ginger's and my friends...
As I sit here barely able to write this and at a loss for words, I wanted to thank all of you for your support and comfort last year when Ginger was poisoned by Hill's MD Dry Cat food.
Over the past week or so Ginger has not been eating very much and with my daughter visiting for my birthday I waited until she went home Saturday before calling the Vet.
Up until last week around Wednesday I noticed that she was barely eating. At the time I thought that perhaps she just had a cold or something or just wasn't feeling good.
By Friday when I got home from work I noticed that she had stopped eating all together and knew I had to get her into the Vet to find out what the problem was. My daughter wanted me to take her in Saturday morning, but since her plane back home was a 2:30 pm flight I didn't want to have her miss the plane.
This morning I called my Vet and told her I thought that maybe Ginger had eaten contaminated food again, she was not eating or having a bowel movement since Wednesday and she said I should get her in so the Doctor could look at her. I took the rest of the day off, headed home, put Ginger in her carrier and headed to the Vet's office.
Once there the Doctor looked at her and the assistant took her temperature. She was unable to get a accurate one as the thermometer could barely be inserted.
They weighed her and she was down to 21 LB's since her physical in December when she weighed 25 LB's. They took her in the back to xray her to see if see may be constipated or if there could be any other problems.
When she came back in she had stopped doing the xray's because after they had done the chest and heart area it showed a Heart problem. Her chest was full of liquid and her heart was floating making it hard for her to breathe. She said I had to see a Specialist and called the Hospital so they would be ready to see her the minute I got there.
She gave Ginger a shot to help her breathe, I paid the bill and headed over to the hospital.
On arriving at the hospital they took her immediately to the back and I waited for a Doctor who was interning to become a Specialist while the Doctor and those assisting her looked at Ginger and the xray's I brought over.
The Doctor whom I saw the first time said Ginger had a Heart Condition and was in very bad shape. They had extracted about 100 Mililiters {I think that's the right word} and around 15ML was a tablespoon and they had done around 8 tablespoons so far. She then went back to assist those working on Ginger.
When she returned she told me that Ginger did have Heart Disease and they would have to get a US-Echocardiogram to see what was going on with her heart. They had her in a oxygen tent and I was informed of what they needed to do.
I was even ask if it was okay to resuscitate if she went under and I said yes. I was told that she would call me later to let me know what the current status was.
Well I just got off the phone with her and she said Ginger had DCM and it was congenital more than likely. She informed me that she might not make it out of the hospital and if she did Ginger might only last a month or two.
All her heart walls were thin and she had trouble pumping blood through her system because of this. I don't know if she will be home or not and if it looks like they are unable to get her home or if it appears that there is nothing they can really do for her I told them to put her down.
I paid the over two hundred dollars at my Vet's and two thousand dollars which was a little over the two thirds of her hospital cost which could exceed $2300 dollars.
I would give all I have if she would come home and be healthy, however at this time I don't think I'll be seeing her again.
To all of you who were very supportive last year I want to thank you as your support meant so much too me.
I can't go on anymore, but I wanted you all to know that Ginger and I thank you from the bottom of are hearts.
God Bless.
I know that like me many of you have had pets at one time or another in you life time. I also know or believe that you may have lost a pet through illness or other circumstances and like you I feel sure some on you may have even had to had them put down. Or in a nicer way to say it put to sleep.
I don't know if that will happen in my case as one can see from reading the above post. The odds are against her and if she does somehow manage to make it home she may not have a long time, a month or two is what the Doctor said.
I would do anything if possible to have her home and on medication for her heart condition, however the facts as I know them now say this will not happen. So I want you all to know that Ginger and I thank you all from the bottom of our hearts for all your prayers and kindness you have shown toward us last year.
Love your pets as much as you love your children if you have any. We do not know what events may occur over the time we have and if you fail to show them the love they deserve you may one day find that it is too late to.
With that I end this post and once again Ginger and I thank you for all that you have given us.
God Bless you all.
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37 Comments:
Dear Anon:
Whatever happens we send you prayers and love to you and Ginger...much light...I pray that she is comfortable, and that you both know that you are held...and understood ...whatever you need we all are here...that the fates give you both what you need...
prayers..light and hope...always..
namaste.
Just came here from Enigma's...so very sorry about Ginger...my thoughts are with you.
A-P, I am so sad at this point. I know your emotional pain. As someone that fosters and rescues cats, I have had to let go of a few that I loved so dearly in a short time they were with us.
I will keep Ginger and you in my heart and my prayers dear friend. However long she lasts, she will be waiting for you at Rainbow Bridge.
Rainbow Bridge
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....
Anon, we pass as ships in the night, but the reality of a cared for critter is well appreciated. But they NEVER leave you.
We have not met before, I'm here at the request of Life's Journey. I have been a pet owner all my adult life, and know the agony of losing one of them. They truly are not cats or dogs, they are members of our immediate family. I wish you and Ginger only the best, and whatever happens, for you, the strength to some how over come this horrible time.
Ginger has the sweetest face in that picture. She looks just like an angel.
The Rainbow Bridge that Dusty posted always makes me cry. I think we can all picture a place like that. For me, it's a big oak tree with all my cats up in the branches and my dogs down below laying in the shade.
Anony-P, I hope you are getting a good night's sleep and that the morning will bring more hopeful news. But whatever happens, I know you will handle it with love and Ginger in your heart.
AnonP...
I am very saddened to hear about Ginger....
I know how hard it is to lose a beloved pet.... I lost my cat, Ami, last month...
as others have said..... they are more than pets.... they are members of our family.....
Please try to take care at this time....
and try to take some comfort knowing that you gave Ginger a very good life..... and she will always be your friend....
I'm very sorry for yours and Ginger's pain Anon.
Only those with the experience of having closeness with a pet could understand how they are such a part of you.
You and Ginger are in my prayers.
Anon you care and pain is obvious. I hope things work out for Ginger. You deserve it my friend!
A-P..I know that the Rainbow Bridge prose is sad..but it gives me hope that I will see my babies again after they leave this earth.
I hope all of us that love four-legged creatures will see them again..its what makes me feel better about losing them. and I have lost quite few.
Hugs to you A-P
If I were Ginger, I would ask you to immortalize me in your memory as healthy and well; and let my aching body go.
Oh dear Anon, you are losing too many close ones in such a short period of time ... how can I comfort you friend?
I am so sorry to read about Ginger. We are cat lovers and lost a beloved cat (Duncan) one year ago to heart disease. There was no warning for his first heart failure, and he made it for 5 more months with lots of procedures, etc.
We will never forget him or stop loving him. Animals are people too. [hugs]
AP
So sorry about Ginger. You've had a lot of loss this year. I'm thinking about you and at least you have the warmth of many wonderful memories on which to rely.
Anon: I am so sorry for your loss. As a fellow pet owner as many here are, take comfort in knowing that we understand how you feel.
It is never easy but I know with all my heart that you will see your dear Ginger again. Also, in time your wonderful memories of her will make you smile when you think of her without the pain and the loss. God Bless Ginger and You. You both are in my thoughts and prayers.
A-P..you didn't want her to suffer or pass on alone while you were at work. I think you did the right thing m'dear friend. It was probably the hardest decision you had to make in your life for someone you loved so much.
Cyber hugs to you, and please don't second guess yourself ok?
AP, you did what you needed to do. I'm so sorry for your loss. {{{hug}}}
anon-p,
I was just notified about Ginger. I'm truly sorry for your loss. You and Ginger are in our prayers. Hang in there friend.
AP
She will always live in your heart. I lit a candle for her to say Farewell that you can see.
Having experienced the same situation just over two months ago with Murphy, I know exactly how you feel. I am so sorry. You loved her so much you were able to allow her to go. That's true pet love.
I came by and read this over again. i am so sorry Buddy you have had a rough spell! I feel for you and ginger. I had to do that with my dog a few years back and you always qustion your actions though oh never mind. Peace!
dear friend....
you showed your deep love and connection for this wonderful friend- by doing what had to be done, the hardest decision....but a decision made with such love.....she is more comfortable now...you are in our thoughts and prayers...and we will send you energy and light as you grapple with this loss....you are not alone...there is a vanilla candle lit here at the Enigma Cafe for you....namaste...
anon...I am so sad for you. I know how much you're hurting. Thank you for loving Ginger and for being a wonderful companion for her. My thoughts are with you. -harborwoman
You did what you knew was best for Ginger at a sacrifice to yourself.
That is what love is all about.
I'm sorry for your loss.
If it should be....
If it should be that I grow frail and weak,
and pain should keep me from my sleep,
then you must do what must be done,
for we know this last battle can't be won.
You will be sad, I understand,
but don't let grief then stay your hand,
for this day, more than the rest,
your love and friendship must stand the test.
We've had so many happy years,
what is to come can hold no fears.
Would you want me to suffer? So,
when the time comes, please let me go.
Take me where my needs they'll tend,
only stay with me until the end,
and hold me firm and speak to me,
until my eyes no longer see.
It is a kindness that you do to me,
although my tail it's last has waved,
from pain and suffering I have been saved.
Do not grieve, it should be you,
who must decide this thing to do.
We've been so close, we two these years,
Don't let your heart hold any tears.
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Anony-P, you have to know you really did spare Ginger having to die possibly alone & in pain. By the fact that she tried to stand up but couldn't, I think she was trying to tell you how weak she really was. I think she had held on just for you, to see you again & be comforted by you before she had to go. She is not hurting anymore, remember that.
It is so hard to lose a good friend like this. Thank you for sharing what had to be so hard to write. May the memory of Ginger always bring a sunny thought to your mind.
i am so sorry. ;( you did the right thing but i know it was hard. hugs and more hugs to you.
Hi Anon,
I found you by way of Betmo, and I'm so sorry to find out about your loss. It's so hard to loose a dear friend and member of the family.
I've often kidded that I have the "geriatric animal club" living at my house (the youngest horse is 28, the youngest cat is 13 and the rabbit is 11), but the last two months have been hard for my son and I. We've lost three of our beloved cats. Beavis, who was 13 and suffered from FUS since he was 2. Bandit, who we adopted 12 years ago as an adult cat, and whom no one else would take because she attacked everyone. And finally Stripe, who at the age of 10 weeks my abusive ex-husband threw against the wall in a fit of rage and nearly killed. She was brain damaged but managed to live to the ripe old age of 17 when she passed away in February.
I do understand, and we all make our choices to do what we feel is best for our loved ones. I chose the other path, and kept my sweeties at home, and was with each one at the end, no matter what time of day or night. I was amazed that I woke up at 3:15a.m. the morning Stripe passed, and simply knew. I have a wonderful vet though, who accommodates my wishes and we do whatever is necessary to alleviate stress and pain for all concerned. Take care.
Hope your finding some comfort today Anon.
Dear AP:
My Heart and prayers go out to you and Ginger, its the first time I saw Ginger, she is quite beautiful. I know what you are going through, I have gone through it myself and while people can offer words of love, compassion and comfort yet the pain remains, but time does heal wounds at least to a certain extent.
I know I went through the pet food scare as well and it was awful, I called the company almost every other day, probably driving them crazy, and every couple of weeks taking my Babies to the vet's for routine checkups to make sure they were ok, it was like walking on eggs.
I will keep praying for Ginger
Take Care AP,
Heather
Looking forward to pictures of Baby. YOu should have at least a happy decade ahead of you with a wonderful companion.
Anon, I had been meaning to stop by and say hello - I miss you! I am sorry to hear about Ginger, as always, my thoughts and positive energy are with you and yours.
Hey friend..I am checking in on you...I hope that you are okay....I hope Baby is settling in...and that your heart is healing...namaste...
Hey Anon I hope your new additions are settling in to their new home.
To all Ginger's and my dear friends.
Normally I would put a reply to all of you individually, however I still seem to not be able or want to write anything right now {new postings}as I'm still in the calling my new adoptions Ginger without even thinking.
As you all know I did adopt another cat two days after the passing of my Ginger Bread Girl. That's what I called her sometimes.
This is my new Baby {that's her name} who's 17 1/2 lbs. and I'm sure will gain weight just like Ginger did.
I got her from the SPCA and she has her front claws still. Have to figure out what to do so she don't claw up my coach or other furniture. I have spoken to a couple people who gave me some good ideas and I believe one of them may work. Called Soft Paws.
Last Sunday I brought home another cat on trial adoption and Thursday after work completed the adoption papers.
This is Pepper {whose name on the paper work is Princess Pepper 2}. The person told me that when they got her they already had a cat named Pepper so they add first the 2 and than the Princess in the front.
Pepper saw the Vet today and she is 11 1/2 lbs. and like Baby I'm sure she will also gain some weight living in my household.
Pepper is all Grey with a little White streak on her face, a little on her neck and her belly is White.
She has one Grey leg with a White Paw and the other three legs and paws are White.
So far Baby and Pepper seem to be getting along, but their still growling a little if either one of them gets to close to the other. I feel in time that they will be great friends.
Baby likes to lay in the patio window and Pepper know can get on the far side without any growling from Baby. She also is a climber and has gotten in the front bedroom window since I brought her home.
All of you have been very kind with your thoughts and words. There is no way I can ever thank you for that and it is appreciated more than I can ever tell you.
I know in my heart that Ginger also thanks you for the kindness shown by all her and my friends by the thoughtfulness shown since she has gone to a far better place that we all hope to go too one day.
Thank you again and...
God Bless you all.
Hi Bud!
Just want to say I hope you have fun with your new friends Pepper and Baby and I wish you all the pleasure and luck in the world!
Sounds like a new start for you and your two new cats A-P :)
Take care sweetie and thank you for the update.
Hi :)
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